While your characters may love each other or they may hate one another, as players all I can ask is that you respect one another. This is a shared storytelling environment, and while we all may be strangers who will never meet irl, we still must do our utmost to respect one another's boundaries.
And it's really simple.
1) If someone tells you that they don't like what you're doing, that they're uncomfortable with what you're saying....stop doing it. Just stop. Don't try and defend what you were doing. Don't try to move where the barriers they set are. Stop doing what you're doing; that's it.
2) If you want to have your characters interact in an antagonistic way, ask the player. "Hey, my character doesn't like your clan for these story reasons. Can you help me highlight this?" If they don't want to play that with you, do not force them to.
3) Yes this is a miai. No, this is not where you get to force an unwanted romance. And if you try and get creepy with someone over pm, you will be ejected.
Don't. Be. A. Dick.
Rule Zero: Don't be a dick
Rule Zero: Don't be a dick
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